It’s undeniable that some people seem to have all the luck when it comes to men, whilst others can never find the right type of guy. Some women just seem to have a knack of getting the guys, where others need to wait in line.
What Are The Secrets Of Getting Him To Fall In Love With You?
Essentially, though there are difference between men and women, we all have an intrinsic desire to be loved and accepted. However, when it comes to getting someone to commit, there is a psychological blueprint that taps into the very chemistry of a man’s brain. Below are the stages of how to get him to fall in love with you.
The very first stage is getting him to be attracted in the first place. This doesn’t mean that you need to pretend to be someone you’re not, or to lose 10lbs: it’s more about making the most of what you already have, and being confident in yourself. That said, do take pride in your appearance; he will notice.
Also ways to get him to draw attention to you in the first place are by wearing striking red lipstick, and sensual fluid lines around the eyes. This actually makes him start thinking about your lips, and the eyes draw him into looking at your reactions to things.
Get his attention
As well as the physical allure that you will have created by emanating confidence and attraction, you need to get his attention. You can achieve this by participating in fun things, so he sees the light-hearted and fun side of your character. Be animated in conversation, using your eyes and your hair to flirt, subtly at first.
This way you will begin to make an impression on him, and he will not necessarily be sure why he can’t get you out of his mind. During this phase, it’s important to remember to be yourself, but to be the very best version of yourself you can.
Try not to fall prey to anxieties, worries or negativity, and show him all of the really great things about you. If you’re passionate about hip-hop dance, let him see it. Or if you prefer hanging out around the city taking pictures, watching quirky movies, or playing with your cat, let him see what you are and the passion within you. Passion is a massive turn on.
Learn his interests
When you’re getting to know him, make sure you take the time to listen to what his interests are. You’re bound to have some common ground that you can work on. Do not pretend to be interested in the same things as him, as this will only backfire, but rather work on the things you actually do have in common.
Refer back to these when talking or texting with him, and he will find you hard to get off his mind because you will show that you are sweet and thoughtful, and give him attention, which equates to respect.
Respect is one of the most important ways to show your guy that you’re interested. It means everything to him. Whether you ask him for advice on a problem, get him to put up some shelves, or ask him to drive you somewhere, appealing to his inner protector, and showing him respect will have him constantly thinking of you, and no one else.
Learn To Speak Dirty
If you want to get any guy to fall for you, then you will need to be open minded and find the ways to engage his largest erogenous organ: his mind! Whilst 50 shades type of language may be a bit over the top for some men, learning how to access certain phrases about what you’d like to do together shows him your wild side, and will have his mind on you, non-stop.
One of the best books on the market to help with this part is Felicity Keith’s The Language of Desire. Packed to the rafters with tips and prescribed messages, this is the flirtation bible, and will have any man eating out of the palm of your hand.